TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS

By la reina

Hello people😊!   Thanks for stopping by. Well today's a new topic and not the previous one as promised due to school program changes. Hope you all will bare with me. Here's something you probably wanna check out.
         
          TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS.

Are you seeing someone or you the type that prefers staying single for various reasons if its not a choice?

Toxic relationships do not only occur among married couples but anyone in an intimate relationship with another. Well then, if a relationship stops bringing joy and instead consistently makes you feel sad, angry, anxious or resigned like you've sold out it may be a toxic relationship.

We've had and heard different cases about such relationships either by witnessing or gotten from various sources,mostly media platforms ;can be the net, on radios or Television stations. People involved in such kind of relationships are people we know, people we come across in our lives and people around us, can be neighbors or a friend to a friend.

Toxic relationships can come in form of abuse either verbal, physical or even sexual violence. I've always asked people who feel uncomfortable in their relationships because of it being unhealthy and does not favor them,  why they still hold on to something that changed and they are not getting anything valuable out of it.

You know how the onset of relationships are, all lovey lovey, pampering, soft romantic words, hugs and kisses, frequent texts and calls, I mean, who'd thought it would ever come to an end!
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Then just suddenly, everything dims out💔. You start crossing each other, anger is involved, hatred, bitterness and then the abuse follows all this because the two people involved have different personalities and diverse background which makes a relationship complex. Courtesy of Google images


College students experience an extremely high level of abuse among intimate partners leading to suicidal and murder cases. If you asked, reason might be one of them cheated and was caught, so he was murdered or committed suicide because of an unbearable pain.

How do you lose yourself over someone? Someone you don't know, someone you have no clue about where they from, their background and who they really are.

So how can we get rid of such happenings?  Talk to a friend, find someone who appreciates you and is worth having you, get yourself involved in a healthy relationship, one where there is commitment, respect, care, equity, communication, effort and no abuse is involved. Don't let peer pressure influence your thoughts, we all know what we want. Be optimistic and opt for better solutions if involved in such situations. Avoid one sided relationships, its a two way traffic.

Having talked about toxic and unhealthy relationships, what are you really afraid of when you are involved with someone? Have you ever experienced such type of a relationship?

Please share and comment on what you think and who you would recommend this to😍.
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FRIENDS

Hello people, this is my first blog post. I hope you like what I have to share. Please feel free to comment, share and like.

                   Friends

Ever wondered how it would be like living without friends? People you can call whenever you troubled, people you would share emotions with, people who would be there in all times, the difficulties, the happiness, laughter and rough times. 

I don't know about you but I have a couple of friends I'd call true friends. I still communicate with my kindergarten friends, primary and high school friends as well and right now I got college colleagues not knowing for how long we'd stick together. We really don't know what the future holds, right?

You might then be asking who exactly is a friend each one of us having a different explanation to it.
Well a friend can be anyone you have a bond of mutual affection not sexually nor family relation.

We meet different people everyday. Others stick, others leave.

What makes the friend you have your friend?
As much as family is important, so are friends. Some even make part of our families.
C. S Lewis a famous author stated,  "Friendship is born at the moment when one person says to another, "What! You too? I thought I was the only one. "

We tend to share common interests hobbies and at times even similar things with our friends. It is very difficult to find friends with different personalities and if there's any, it is a slight one.
How often they are willing to help you without necessarily being around and not feeling you as a burden is what makes that friend your friend.

We meet people on different occasions, incidents and places and some without knowing, become what we were not expecting ;part of us.
You might agree with me if it were not for school, college or work, most of us would not have friends. The social interaction is what brings the friendships among us.

You may have realized we have different types of friends depending on the situations we meet in.
There are the childhood friends which most of us grow apart with, work colleagues, those that we meet at work or during interviews, party friends, the ones we meet occasionally only when there are parties or any events, social media friends, who most of us are associated with but don't know them. They give a different kind of vibe on social media which makes you feel like you've known them for years and of course school friends, ones we spend most of our time with.

 FRIENDS!
            Friendships break, friendships are formed
Value who you got before its all gone.

Be free to share your comments on friends.